The past two weeks have been busy as usual. We finished up prenatal classes last week which feels really good. We have been doing them the past 5 Tuesdays and the past 3 Tuesdays they have taken place in St. Paul. It will be very nice not to make that trek anymore! Needless to say, we learned a lot and it was very eye opening. It was good to get us thinking about everything and what we specifically want in our labor and postpartum experience.
About a month ago I woke up freaking out with the thought, "What if the baby isn't a girl?!" It was really bothering me. Yes, I know I could never *really* know for sure until she comes, but I just had to have some more reassurance. So I put matters into my own hands. The first thing I did was go online and compare my photo of her gender to other girl ultrasound photos. Yep, looked alike! Definitely a hamburger sign present. Second, I took my ultrasound picture to my physician to get her opinion. She also concurred that it looked like a girl and not parts that of a boy. Then she suggested having another ultrasound done for free by the students at Argosy University in Eagan. Not only could they confirm the gender, but I was told I would be able to have a 3d ultrasound as well.
On October 25 my mom threw me an amazing shower! It was just perfect and we received so many wonderful gifts. We are so thankful for all of you and your support. We appreciate it very much. Here are some photos!
Such a cute summer outfit from Nana!
Absolutely beautiful quilt made by Nana! Love you!
Super soft and adorable baby blanket made by cousin Danni!
Fabulous quilt made by Auntie Peggy! Matches baby's room perfectly.
Love this onesie from Auntie Shannie!
Table centerpieces made by Auntie Peggy! Great job!
And my family picture - because I love them! :)
On Sunday after the shower while Ryan went to help in the field I put away all of baby's new goodies and washed and folder her clothes. It is overwhelming, but it is so exciting too!
Instead of baby stats this week, I am going to do something different and answer
Frequently Asked Questions:
1. How are you feeling? I am feeling great!! Seriously. I often wonder if this is weird and I shouldn't be feeling this well. I know I am getting larger, getting out of bed is becoming a struggle, bending over is a lot of work, I run out of breath easily, I am dealing with acid reflux and a little heartburn, but seriously.. none of this is worth complaining about. I feel really good and I hope that it continues. I am thankful.
2. Are you ready to be done? Of course not. God has blessed me with this baby and I want to keep her in there as long as she sees fit. Am I excited to meet her? Yes! But after what happened, I can't even begin to complain about being pregnant or wanting to "be done." I know it helps that I feel so good. I know that it won't be long and I will start to become uncomfortable and I will long even more to meet her, but I don't ever want to phrase it as "being done." Honestly, this is my most disliked question and it is the one I hear the most... and I am only 34 weeks.
3. Are you sure it is a girl? Am I sure? Well, you tell me. Last I knew there was no way anyone could be 100% sure. This is kind of like "Are you sure there is only one in there?" ha.
4. Do you have a name picked out? Yep! Honestly, we had a boy and a girl name picked out since our last pregnancy. Both names were the same names that we chose for this baby as well and since we know it is a girl, well, it is STILL the same name. So technically we have had her name picked out for about a year and a half! We really like it (obviously) and we pretty much made it permanent a little over a month ago when I ordered something with her name on it. :)
5. Do you realize how much your life is going to change? Did you just ask a pregnant woman that? Of course! Do you know how much I've thought about that? A lot. I think about it all the time. Those who have asked me that often say it like it is a bad thing. It bums me out. Is everything going to be roses and sunshine? No, but we are going to have a child, a child of our own, that we get to love for the rest of our lives. What a blessing and a WONDERFUL change to our lives.
6. What is the baby's name? Sorry, we aren't even telling our mothers this one!
7. Are you getting an epidural? Yes, I am a fan of western medicine. They made it and I am using it!
8. What is the theme of the nursery? Theme? Uhhh.. baby? Right? I wasn't about to put monkeys or other characters all over her walls and then have to change it in a year. It works for other people, but not for us. It is my practical side.
9. Are you going back to work? Of course I am.
10. Are you going to breastfeed? I am planning on breastfeeding and I am praying all the time it works for us. We understand the commitment that it requires and we are willing to do it.
11. Is this your first baby? This question is always so hard for me, but I always say yes. I know no one wants to hear my story, but sometimes I feel guilty saying yes. We do have an angel in heaven and we will never forget about that baby.
12. What has been your favorite gifts? Handmade blankets and gifts. I will cherish them forever.
If you have been pregnant before, I am sure you were asked many of these and others as well. Most I don't mind, others baffle me. The ones that baffle me the most, I didn't share.
We have another busy week ahead of us and on Saturday my sister is throwing me a shower! I am very excited. I even started packing my hospital bag this week. I have been scared to do it in fears that she will show up early. We are pretty excited and it just blows my mind that our due date is only 6 weeks away! Crazy! Stay tuned!